agree?

Some times we agree to disagree.,

I do this far more often often in business than in friendship or in family.

This is where procedures and base requirements of two organizations just simply do not meet up. We agree it doesn't work we both do our thing required of us and in the end the main thing in question gets done. This agreeing to disagree. we will each do our own thing as long as the main "thing" gets done.

In my friendship and loving relationships I find myself reflecting on the "one thing" in question. I can love my friend , I can love my wife and children, I can love my brothers and sisters even if they don't believe that my "one thing" is real/appropriate/realistic/acceptable.

"Agreeing to disagree" is a business arrangement. Accepting someone will not ever agree with you and deciding to continue caring about them them is friendship and love.

husband

A response to a post about men and women.. from the point of view of a husband the post is below my response

A respectful response..

A Husband treasures his wife and the sacrifice of her family name. It is an outward show of commitment that he shares in by giving his family name to her.

A Husband Strives to provide a home for his wife and family.

A Husband gives up his family to make his own. it is or should be) an absolute issue. His Wife and Children are or should be the focus of his life.

A Husband moves in with you as well. it is not his mothers home to make it is not his fathers to command it is a husband and wife's to make and mold together.

A Husband should treasure and protect his wife in gravitas. She is his chosen mate caring his child. if he is thinking of anything but her comfort and the child's protection then he is not worthy of her.

A Husband's body changes though often not as fast. , A Husband gets fat. No Husband looks at love as a physical proposition.

A Husband is praying from the first time a Braxton hicks is identified to the time His wife clears delivery (most often he has already got to hold his child) That what ever power that created earth will protect his wife and child. (even atheist.)

being a "Husband" is not the same as being male or a Man. being a "Dad" is not the same as being a "Male parent"

Husbands do not forget to cherish their Wives any more than Wives forget to cherish their Husbands and Parents always remember to cherish their Children and Families..

(this is in response to an image post on a friends feed. )

This is the post I had responded to

A lot of men think they doing women a favour by asking for her hand in marriage, but lets think about this : she changes her name, changes her home, leaves her family, moves in with you, builds a home with you, gets pregnant for you, pregnancy change her body, she gets fat, almost gives up in the labour room due to the unbearable pains of child birth, even the kids she delivers bear your name. Till the day she dies everything she does benefits you.So who is really doing who a favour?Dear men appreciate your wife today, it is not easy to be a woman.*Being a woman is priceless *

monument

As I have wandered the memorial Gardens of man the Thought occurred to me "Our Monument to God is what we make of the life he has granted us"